Listen

When we talk to someone we should listen to what they actually say and respond accordingly. Too often we are met with blank faces and nods of agreement or disagreement with no idea of what we actually said because you are watching TV, looking at your phone etc. The other thing that happens is when you know you are going to be questioned over something, you hear what you expect, you get defensive answers ready and give them regardless. In mediumship we have to listen with all of ourselves to be able to hear clearly spirits communication, you as recipient must also be willing to listen properly and to keep listening if the person being described is not who you wanted. Sometimes the one you want is next in the queue and will be brought forward shortly.